The so-called idea of relationships in this day and age is ridiculous. I’m a woman and I’m tired of seeing other woman be selfish. Relationships are a two way thing. It is not all about the woman. Not saying that men rule everything but ladies its okay to do things for your man. I believe that’s why so many relationships fail because society makes relationships seem o one-sided. For instance when you’re choosing what to do for dates find something that both of you like even if that means aspect of the date. So maybe one of you can pick the restaurant and one of you can pick the movie. Its a little bit of give and take.